If you’re someone who has been single for quite some time, THIS IS FOR YOU! Loneliness is epidemic in the world today, and it’s made worse by the isolation created due to our technology. We’ve never been more connected in one way yet so alone in many other ways…especially when it comes to love. There are so many people longing for true love and the feeling of deep, intimate connection with their partner.
You’ve been hurt in the past. You’re scared. You feel like you’re afraid to trust again. You don’t want to feel rejected. You can’t find what you’re looking for. You’re picky. You’ve convinced yourself that maybe being in love and living happily ever after isn’t in the cards for you. Does any of this sound like you? Are you ready to fall in love again?
What would it feel like to…
- Find the one you’ve been longing for?
- Trust that you are worthy of a rich, divine loving relationship?
- Be living each day in a loving, committed relationship and be happy?
- Go to sleep with and wake up next to the love of your life?
- Never feel lonely ever again?!?
Sounds great, right? Too good to be true? Nope. It’s absolutely yours to have.
Are you ready to find out how?
Make Sure You’re Really READY!
As an avid student and practitioner of Manifestation and The Law of Attraction, there is one thing I know for sure…if he or she isn’t showing up, it’s because you’re not ready. You may think that you are, but your actions are saying something else. Let’s assess your level of readiness:
- Do you have room for him/her in your life?
- Do you keep yourself so busy that you hear yourself saying, “I don’t have time to date?”
- Are you taking regular actions and putting energy around inviting him/her into your life?
If you want it, then your actions need to mirror that. How committed are you? My last three relationships came into my life the moment I was READY! One showed up two days after I asked for him. The next relationship appeared on the EXACT DATE I asked for him by. My current relationship happened less than two weeks after I got clear about what I wanted, and WHAM…there he was! YOU NEED TO BE CLEAR AND YOU NEED TO BE READY!
Embrace Online Dating!
Online dating is AMAZING, but it gets such a bad rap. If you’re on a good site that verifies profiles and you’re smart about not giving out too much personal information, you have access to a world of incredible people!!! Turn your negative attitude about it into a positive attitude, then watch how different the experience becomes for you! HAVE FUN WITH IT!!! Instead of feeling like it’s a chore and another job, treat it like a fun, shopping spree! Don’t be so quick to judge a book by its cover. Connect, connect, connect! Remember, you’re looking for “the one,” but in order to find him/her, you need to get out there and date a lot. Every date you go on gives you greater clarity about what you really want and moves you closer to it each time. Plus, you make new friendships and relationships along the way. Don’t forget, they are looking for love and connection, too. What you seek is seeking you!
Don’t do the “texting” thing. Go meet for coffee. Get together immediately. Don’t waste each other’s time. Find out right away if there’s a connection. Make the time. Make the effort. Date frequently. HAVE A POSITIVE, UPBEAT ATTITUDE about it! (Note: please read or watch my “Attitudes Determine the Outcomes” blog and webinar to help you become a better attractor.)
Be Open, Vulnerable and Optimistic
Before you begin any communication, whether it’s online or an in-person date, SET THE INTENTION: “I Intend To Be Open, Vulnerable and Optimistic.” Be your authentic self. Don’t play games, don’t be shy or coy, and especially…don’t be guarded. Be brave enough to make the first move. (I love BUMBLE because the woman MUST make the first move. It takes all the guesswork out of the equation.) By being “real” you give the other person the opportunity to be “real” too. Remember, we are all perfectly imperfect…so when you’re open, vulnerable and optimistic from the start, you create an environment to make a “real” intimate connection right from the beginning. Isn’t that what you want and what you’re looking for?
We’ve just scratched the surface here…but, this is a great start! Do these three things and you will be well on your way to falling in love again!
LOVE IT!: I LOVE MYSELF AND I LOVE BEING IN LOVE!
THANK IT!: I AM GRATEFUL TO BE IN A DIVINE, LOVING RELATIONSHIP!
BRING IT!: THE MOMENT I DECIDED I WAS READY, MY LOVE SHOWED UP!
If you want to find out exactly how to create room for your relationship, how to set up an exciting, engaging online profile, and learn what to say and do on the first date, then email my team at firstname.lastname@example.org and schedule a private session with me. You’ll be in a new, fun, exciting relationship so fast guaranteed! I promise you, it’s closer than you realize! ARE YOU READY???
QUOTE: “First best is falling in love. Second best is being in love. Least best is falling out of love. But any of it is better than never having been in love.” – Maya Angelou
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