“Worry is a wasted, wasted emotion. Worry means you’re living in your future. You’re not living in your now. So when we’re worried, we’re not having faith and trust that things are supposed to be working out for us. They are supposed to be working out for us.”
How many times have you asked yourself questions that highlight the achievements, success, relationships that you DON’T have? Why don’t I have a husband? Why can’t I keep the weight off? Why am I always late? Our mindset, emotions, and language are all inextricably linked. They determine what shows up in our lives. Shifting our mindset will alter our emotions and communication, manifesting the things we want, instead of keeping us stuck in unfulfilled lives. The focus of our time today is all about the power of asking the right questions!
In this episode, I give three statements, three questions to start asking yourself to shift your mindset, and change the message that you are communicating to the universe.
Love it! Statement – Why do I get everything I want?
Thank it! Statement – Why does my list of things to be grateful for keep growing?
Bring it! Statement – How can life possibly be this good?
“When we ask questions, our subconscious starts searching for all the files, all the stored memories and experiences, and then it goes out of its way to make sure that that’s coming into our lives, that your day and your life is actually getting better… it’s really important to be asking yourself the right questions.”
Below are three steps to take today to start changing your mindset, and changing the things that are manifesting in your life.
- Turn Worry into Wonder.
- Replace “I am” or “I was” with “the person I used to be.”
- Create questions that put your subconscious to work for you
So my question to you is, what’s showing up in your life? Are you manifesting financial success, fulfilled relationships, a healthy lifestyle? If not, it’s time to take a look at the questions you’re asking yourself!
“The art and science of asking questions is the source of all knowledge.” – Thomas Berger
Each week, we end our episode with a mantra meditation. This is a fun, transformative way for you to apply the concepts from discussed to your life right now. Start changing the questions you ask yourself. Start shifting your mindset. Start seeing abundance and success manifest in your life!
I have today to love my life. Something really good is going to happen to me today. I can feel it. Miracles big and small. I notice them all. Yes, yes, yes. Thank you. I’ve decided
that today and every day forward, I’m going to choose to be happy. I’ve realized that
happiness is a choice. It’s a decision that I get to make every day. I get to decide in any situation, in any circumstance, how I want to feel in that moment. And I’ve realized that happiness is a choice and I can choose happiness above all other emotions. I can just decide not to look at the things that are going wrong in my life, but instead look at what’s going right in my life. If I stopped for a minute and I think in that moment as something is happening that I would normally consider to be negative, I can turn that around and see the gift in that moment and take that opportunity to look at it with new eyes. So that’s what I’m going to do. I realize that there’s positive and negative in any situation, if that’s the way I choose to look at it. So why not focus on the positive? Why not focus on the happiness? That’s the way I’m going to look at it. I’m going to see the gifts and the lesson and the opportunity in every single moment of my life. I’m going to choose to be happy and not take things personally. I realize that my life is right now, that whatever is going on in that moment, it’s going to be in the past and it won’t even matter. I’m going to choose to stop putting so much emphasis on negative things and all my energy and emphasis only on the positive. I’m going to choose to live in gratitude and appreciation and acceptance and love and happiness because here’s what I now know. Things are always working out for me. They are always working out for me. God, the universe, Spirit. Everything collectively comes from a place of love. There is no such thing as negativity. That’s a decision that we as humans get to make. I am no longer affected by the outside forces or experiences from anyone else that’s in my world. I get to decide to be happy in every single moment. Happiness is possible every single day, in most circumstances. The only place that it’s not accepted is in the places I decide I don’t want to accept it. I can’t get sick enough to make sick people well. I can’t get sad enough to make sad people happy. I can’t get angry enough to make angry people feel at peace. The only way I can affect change is by being true to myself and by being true to myself, I choose to be as happy as I can be in all the simple things that life has to offer. Because it’s by being happy and making that decision to come from a place of happiness and love that me, myself, and I, this one little person can have a profound effect on the entire world and that is the way I choose to live. I love being happy and I love seeing the effects that my happiness has on the entire world. And so it is. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
“It’s by being happy and making that decision to come from a place of happiness and love that me, myself, and I, this one little person, can have a profound effect on the entire world. And that is the way I choose to live.”
Some Topics we talk about in this episode:
- Introduction – 0:02
- You’re Asking the Wrong Questions – 5:17
- Turn Your Worry to Wonder – 8:10
- Replace “I was” with “the person I used to be” – 11:44
- Put Your Subconscious to work! – 16:10
- Love it! Thank it! Bring it! Statements – 21:53
- Wrap-up and Takeaways – 26:30
How to get involved
- Email firstname.lastname@example.org for a PDF guiding through the process of transforming the questions you’re asking yourself, and for access to my 30 Day Challenge!
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